Next Thursday is my bachelorette party… In San Fran!!! So as I was looking at my closet in desperation, I decided to reach out to a fashionable (and friendly enough to help me out) blogger Becca. I really love her outfits posts like this and this. So I was hoping she could help put together some looks for me.
She quickly put some amazing outfits together. Check out each outfit here on her style blog. And for the breakdown of what is in each outfit click here. I love the overall look of each one and with a few more layers (bc who are we kidding it’s still 100ish each so I’ll be freezing) like scarves and jackets, they’ll be perfect. She found a fantastic mix of affordable clothes too! I’ll be venturing to Target and probably Old Navy this weekend.
Thanks again Becca! Can’t wait to sport them in San Francisco next weekend :)
Sunday
We started Sunday off at the pool! It was nice to splash around in the pool with my Dad just like old times. Although, he didn’t throw me like he used to haha. Paul, Richelle & I stopped at Fat Tuesday’s for a 100oz frozen drink—-yummmm!

Then we headed to breakfast at Hash House a Go-Go. The wait was ENDLESS but the food was great and HUUUUUGE! See photo of Paul’s chicken and waffles!

After lunch we decided to take advantage of the offer we got for going to see Diva’s the night before. They told us we’d get ‘free tickets’ to Nathan Burton’s Comedy Magic show! This time the ‘free tickets’ cost us $10. It was really funny because we went right before the show was starting to get our tickets and they asked us if we wanted to pay more to get closer to the stage. We said no that it was okay to be in the back. As we walked into the auditorium, I joked with the usher that we’d take the seats in the front…and he gave me crap back but ended up seating us in the front row! They were great seats! During the show, Nathan had a guest Jeff Civillico do a performance. Jeff asked for two STRONG male volunteers and immediately Paul started flexing and I started pointing to him. He got asked to come on stage and for the next five minutes, Richelle and I were dying laughing!!! Jeff nicknamed him Chia after feeling his hair.
After the show we filled up our 100 oz drink again (YUMMMMM) and then headed over to Rio to watch Al in the World Series of Poker. Couldn’t really see his hands but it was awesome hearing the hummmm of chips moving. There were thousands of people, I can only imagine how overwhelemed and nervous he must have felt! We then we to Gold Coast for dinner. We ate at Cortez Room at Gold Coast and yet again, had an amazing dinner. The service was so impeccable that my Mom and sister actually requested to fill out a comment card so they could compliment the waiter and staff. My brother ended up lossing later in the evening. We ended the night gambling at Excalibur and had fun playing slots together.

Monday
Last day——sigh! We packed up and headed over the Planet Hollywood. This is one of my favorite hotels/casinos….mainly for the BEAUTIFUL lighting!

After a quick lunch, walking around the mall and a little bit of gambling, Paul and I headed back to Imperial Palace. Paul received ACTUAL free tickets for two to Jeff’s show and we decided to see it before we left. The show was okay—-lots of juggling which was cool! After the show we meet up with our family, packed the car and headed home. Shelley and Al were staying until the next day. We agreed to take my parents home so we detoured to Prescott Valley first. As always, the drive home sucked. So very thankful to Paul for driving the entire vacation!
Overall this trip was filled with GREAT food, fun shows and good family time! Plus I came home with money in my wallet therefore making Vegas a success!
Saturday
Slept in a bit Saturday morning—-sooooo nice! Then we all headed out to get lunch. After throwing out a few lunch ideas, we decided to go to Caeser’s Palace and eat at Cheesecake Factory. At lunch, we dedcided to bust out the surprise we had for my mom since we were all together!
Several years ago, my Mom was helping my brother move and somehow her diamond fell out of her wedding ring. You can read the details on my brother’s blog here. Several months ago, I had the idea of replacing the stone in my mom’s ring for their 35th Anniversary this summer! I mentioned it to my brother & sister who both thought it was a great idea. I conspired with my father to get the ring and Paul helped me find a jeweler to do it. Turns out my father was holding on to this other diamond ring they found YEARS ago in one of their restaurants (it was so tiny, I could only imagin it fit a child’s finger). They were able to take the diamond from there, replace the prongs and clean her ring up. Boy does it look amazing! I also personalized a card online-courtesy of www.treat.com for the added special touch. We decided to surprise her in Vegas because it was the only time we knew we’d all be together.
I handed my Mom the card and told her we wanted to celebrate their anniversary. Her and my Dad opened the card and both started tearing up just from that! I even found a card that played up to the theme of the wedding (Love in All Seasons) so it was extra special. Then we set the ring box in front of her. She looke bewildered as she opened it and gasped when she saw the ring! I can only imagine how surprised & happy she was when my Dad proposed because she was BEAMING ear to ear seeing her ring! She immediately put it on her hand, hugs went round and round and we were able to snap a few photos. It meant so much to us to thank our parents for loving each other. They’ve set the greatest example for us and as my own wedding approaches, I am even more thankful for having that wonderful example of marriage.

After lunch, we all went our separate ways. Paul, Richelle & I walked around Caesar’s shopping. OMG did I want to buy the entire Michael Kors store!!! We decided to look for a show to go to that night since Al, Shelley & my Mom would be at the concert (turns out, I really should have gone to the concert-it was the best they had been to…read recap from Al here). When we didn’t see anything great at the half price tickets, we decided to go see Divas at our hotel since we had received ‘free tickets’. The free ended up costing $15 each but it was well worth it! Before we headed to the concert though, we meet my family at Flamingo. I sat down with my Dad, sister & brother to play Pai Gow. It’s about the only table game that I enjoy. I hate blackjack because before I can even do the math in my head, the dealer’s won and I’ve lost! Pai Gow is much slower paced so I can play with the same amount of money for longer. AND—-I’ve had great luck! I always play the bonus and this time I got 4 of a kind and won $125 off of that hand! After Flamingo they went to the concert and we walked around with my Dad for awhile. I won at a few slots too that day! Then Richelle, Paul & I headed off to dinner. We ate at Margaritaville, one of my favorites! We sat in the bar area and overlooked the strip. It was fabulous people watching and the volcano at the Mirage even went off!The Divas show was halirious! They are female impersonators and impersonated all the big name female singers. We all had a blast laughing and I would highly recommend the show to others. Afterwards, we headed to bed for an early night (Vegas standards that is).

Beyonce impersonator was probably our favorite!!!
Several months ago my brother told me he was going to get Garth Brook’s tickets for him and Mom (as a Mother’s day gift) in Vegas over his vacation time. I was EXTREMELY intersted, but with the high ticket price and impending wedding, I had to be frugal and not buy the tickets.
For those who don’t know, my brother Al is a Foreign Service Officer and just finished his first post in Belize. He was lucky and able to come home for both Christmases while he was in Belize but it’s very unlikely that will happen at other posts. He has less than a year in the Sates (he’ll be in DC) to learn German and then will be posted in Frankfurt. Al’s visit grew closer and I realized that with my parents now living in Prescott Valley (a little less than 2 hours north of my home in Phoenix) he would likely stay with them for the majority of his time-one week-in AZ. So I decided it was the perfect excuse to tag along in Vegas! Paul was able to get the time off of work too and so we all made a nice trip out of it!
Friday
I had wanted to fly, but the majority voted that we drive because we would need two cars in Vegas. So Paul and I headed out early Friday morning, as did my parents and Al from Prescott Valley. Shelley was working and would fly in Friday night. A few days before we left, Richelle (Paul’s sister) stopped by for dinner on her way back to Kingman from Tuscan and I realized she should join us for Vegas! My sister, Paul & I were sharing a hotel room, so we would have room for her to sleep. And she’s living in Kingman over the summer-less than two hours from Vegas and she recently turned 21! Ran it by my family and her….and everyone was in!
So we stopped in Kingman at the In-N-Out to meet up with Paul’s family and mine. Richelle said she was helping her mom around the house and would drive in later that night. We then drive into Vegas. We were staying at the Imperial Palace…we’ve stayed there before as it has a good location (right in the middle of the strip) and is cheap. This time it was under construction which sucked, but oh well. We weren’t there for a luxuouris hotel!
We had planned to meet a friend of Al’s from Belize that night from dinner. As we were putting our bags in the hotel, I get a call from my dad. “Change of plans-were meeting Bob at a steakhouse in Belagio so you better call Richelle and tell her if she wants as a free steak dinner she better get here by 7:30.” AWESOME! I called, and she obviously got right in the car!
Turns out Bob owns a poker room in Belize and was also there for the World Series of Poker like my brother was. The steakhouse was Fix at Bellagio and was easily the best steak of my life! And the structrue was as beautiful as the food was delicious. The only downside was the music—-it was SOOOO loud (which ended up being a trend of the vacation) and I couldn’t hear anyone but the two people next to me. Which was unfortunate because Bob seemed to have some great stories! I ‘ooooh’ed and ‘ahhhh’ed, watching Al’s reaction to make sure mine was appropriate. As promissed, Bob footed the bill for ALL 6 of us, plus himself and his daughter. Which, at $70+ per person, was no easy feat. Shelley REALLY missed out & we made sure to tell her! That night we went to old Vegas and got to see the light show.

We’ve checked off a TON of items on our massive wedding to do list lately. Including:
Selecting our DJ: I already posted about this…but seriously so excited! And with the DJ comes lights and a photo booth! WHOOT! Now, just want to play for our first dance?
China and Linens picked out: Meet our wedding coordinator last night (just from the venue, we aren’t that fancy) and picked out our linens. We’re going to have a nice grouping of red, black and white to go with our color scheme!
Flowers Selected: Well, basically. Still have to officially meet with the florist & get our quote back. But when we meet with our coordinator, we were able to figure out the idea we want to fit within our budget. We’re doing babies breath bouquets with a few red roses. Than mine will be a bigger version. It will look nice and save us a ton of money by using babies breath as a main flower.
Food and Alcohol: We’ve started thinking about this. We have the food list to select from and are planning to ask advice from our families and then do our tasting. We also need to set up the cake tasting soon but I know what I want it to look like. As far as booze, I think we’re going to do kegs, wine & then have a signature drink. We’ll have some liquor outside of that but not every type because it gets too complicated. We’ll probably stick with soda mixers to save some $$$ and hopefully everyone will be okay with that.
Save the Dates: They went out in the mail today so that’s a BIG check off our list! And our wedding website will be completed tonight for all of our guest to find more info.
Lately I’ve been finding myself day dreaming a lot about the wedding. I can’t help it! I guess I’ve never thought about my wedding before and now that we are making more and more selections, I just can’t stop thinking about it. I even find myself tearing up at times because I know it’s going to be such a beautiful day. Even without the material things, it will just be so wonderful to have all of our loved ones there with us!!! Or at least thinking of us on that day if they can’t make it.
Gosh, even just to have all of my family together would be wonderful! Or just all of my girlfriends in one city together would be incredible! Or to see all of Paul’s family together and meet the few that I haven’t yet would be amazing! Or to get to dress up and spend the night dancing around would be so much fun! Or to just celebrate our love and commit to each other for the rest of our lives would be breath taking! BUT WE GET TO DO IT ALL——-IN ONE DAY!!!!! And what an amazing day it’s going to be :D
Work sucked [as usual lol] but that gloomy day turned right around when I got home:
-Save the Date photo cards came!!! THEY LOOK GREAT! And I have the magnets, envelopes & labels so I foresee crafting in my future tonight
-Paul was so sweet and thought of me when he went to the grocery store: bought a bottle of my favorite wine and COOKIES! Haha I’ve been complaining to him for awhile that I really want cookies so I was so excited to see he got some for me!
For awhile now I have been hearing about the Clarisonic cleansing ‘tool’. I loved the idea, massaging bristles with face wash to clean your face. But I was skeptical for a few reasons. One—-the price and Two—-I get annoyed with cleaning my face.
Last Sunday I was at Ulta and saw that they had the Clarisonic Mia for $120. This was significantly less than I remembered them being. Apparently the Mia is a new version and comes with a lower cost point. I checked them out. Walked around the store convincing myself I didn’t need it, but I quickly walked back. With the wedding coming up (188 days——WOAH) I knew I wanted my face to be in tip top shape. I still get acne, white heads and feel like my pores look like the Grand Canyon some times. I knew I would end up buying it eventually, so why not that day?
Someone at Ulta gave me a few pointers (use a non-foaming face cleanser) and I picked out my color and was on my way. While I was reading the instructions, I got even more excited. It only takes one minute….ONE MINUTE!!! And it times itself so you don’t have to count either :) I often use face wipes because I’m lazy and I can tell you I spend more than a minute trying to get all my makeup off. You still have to remove your eye makeup first.
Not only does it do a great job cleaning (their website says it gets 6x better than with your hands alone) but it FEELS great-during and after! It was like a little face massage and then after wards my skin felt sooooo soft! I try to exfoliate once a week, and just one use of the Clarisonic was better than exfoliating!
I’ve been using it for just under a week and have noticed a big difference. My skin feels great and I look FORWARD to washing my face! CRAZY!
And you only replace the heads every 3 months and they are approximately $20 each, so not bad. Go buy it…you won’t regret it!

200 Days….
Is all that stands between Ms. C becoming Mrs. B—-FOREVER!
Needless to say…I couldn’t be more excited!!!!
Photo cred to our AMAZING photographer.
I got my LWL package last week and I think the added anticipation due to mailing issues made me even more excited to open it! Ashley totally got me….as I LOVE both of these colors!
I had to wait until after I got back from my conference in ATL…but that next night both colors went on! I couldn’t decide between one, so I used both.
Fingernails: OPI Too Hot Pink To Hold ‘Em
Toenails: OPI Ya’ll Come Back Ya Hear?
I’m more partial to the orange, but I love both colors for summer time! Will be the perfect accent for pool party today (Happy Cinco De Mayo!!!)
Thank you again Ashley!
Our Engagement Photos…love love love!
Jill did an amazing jobs on our engagement photos! These are some of my favorites =) She did a wonderful job capturing our love! (*Please excuse the low quality of photos…we’ll have a high res CD soon but I was too anxious to not share.) If you want to take a peak at all the images, go to this link.
And if you are in the Phoenix area and looking for a photographer who takes beautiful, loving images and makes you feel totally comfortable around, call Jill (602-628-0301) of Jill Lauren Photography! Or visit her website at: www.jilllaurenphotography.com! You won’t regret it!!!
This article is absolutely wonderful! I feel that many of the points describe me but I look forward to working on some of the others that I’m not as good at. I hope someone else finds this article as inspirational as I did! You can click link or read the article below:
What is the difference between happy people and unhappy people? Of course, it may be very obvious, happy people are happy while unhappy people are unhappy, right? Well, that is correct, but we want to know what are the things that these people do differently and that is why, I have put together a list of things that HAPPY people do differently than UNHAPPY people.
1. LOVE vs. FEAR. Well, I can tell you for sure that those people who are really happy, FEAR less and LOVE a lot more.They see each moment, each challenge, each person as an opportunity to discover more about themselves and the world around them.
2. ACCEPTANCE vs. RESISTANCE. Happy people understand that you can’t really change a situation by resisting it, but you can definitely change it by accepting that it is there and by understanding that there might be a reason for its existence. When something unpleasant happens to them, they don’t try to fight it, knowing that this will make the situation even worse, but rather, they ask themselves questions like: What can I learn from this? How can I make this better? and they go from there, focusing on the positive rather than on the negative. They always seem to see the glass half full no matter what happens to them.
3. FORGIVENESS vs. UNFORGIVENESS. Really happy people know that it’s not healthy to hold on to anger. They choose to FORGIVE and FORGET, understanding that FORGIVENESS is a gift they give to themselves first and foremost.
“Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.”Buddha
4. TRUST vs. DOUBT. They trust themselves and they trust the people around them. No matter if they talk to the cleaning lady or the C.E.O. of a multi billion company, somehow they always seem make the person they are interacting with feel like there is something unique and special about them.
They understand that beliefs become self-fulfilling prophecies, and because of that, they make sure to treat everybody with love, dignity and respect, making no distinctions between age, sex, social status, color, religion or race. These are the great men that Mark Twain was talking about: “Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.” Mark Twain
5. MEANING vs. AMBITION. They do the things they do because of the meaning it brings into their lives and because they get a sense of purpose by doing so. They understand that “Doing what you love is the cornerstone of having abundance in your life” like Wayne Dyer puts it, and they care more about living a life full of meaning rather than, what in our modern society we would call, living a successful life.
The irony here is that most of the time they get both, success and meaning, just because they choose to focus on doing the things they love the most and they always pursue their heart desires. They are not motivated by money; they want to make a difference in the lives of those around them and in the world.
6. PRAISING vs. CRITICIZING. Happy people would probably agree with Carl’s Jung theory on resistance: “What you resist not only persists, but will grow in size”. They don’t criticize the absence of the behavior they want to reinforce, but rather, every time the behavior is present, even if it’s not that often, they know that by praising the person and the behavior, they will actually reinforce the positive behavior.
When a parent wants to make sure that his 7 years old boy will learn to always put the toys back in the box after he’s done playing with them, he will make sure not to focus on the many times the child won’t do it, criticizing him and his behavior, but rather, every time the little boy does put the toys back, the parent will praise him and his behavior and that is exactly how he will reinforce the positive behavior, and in the end geting the wanted results.
7. CHALLENGES vs. PROBLEMS. Happy people will see PROBLEMS as CHALLENGES, as opportunities to explore new ways of doing things, expressing their gratitude for them, understanding that underneath them all lies many opportunities that will allow them to expand and to grow.
8. SELFLESSNESS vs. SELFISHNESS.They do what they do not for themselves, but for the good of others, making sure that they bring meaning, empowerment and happiness in the lives of many. They look for ways to give and to share the best of themselves with the world and to make other people happy.
”Before giving, the mind of the giver is happy; while giving, the mind of the giver is made peaceful; and having given, the mind of the giver is uplifted.”Buddha
9. ABUNDANCE vs. LACK/POVERTY. They have an abundant mindset living a balanced life, achieving abundance in all areas of life.
10. DREAMING BIG vs. BEING REALISTIC. These people don’t really care about being realistic. Theylove and dare to dream big, they always listen to their heart and intuition and the greatness of their accomplishments scares many of us.
“Dream no small dreams for they have no power to move the hearts of men.” Goethe
11. KINDNESS vs. CRUELTY. They are kind to themselves and others and they understand the power of self love, self forgiveness and self acceptance.
12. GRATITUDE vs. INGRATITUDE. No no matter where they look, no matter where they are or with who, they have this capacity of seeing beauty where most of us would only see ugliness, opportunities, where most of us would only see struggles, abundance where most of us would only see lack and theyexpress their gratitude for them all.
13. PRESENCE/ ENGAGEMENT vs. DISENGAGEMENT. They know how to live in the present moment, appreciating what they have and where they are, while still having big dreams about the future.
“When you are present, you can allow the mind to be as it is without getting entangled in it. The mind in itself is a wonderful tool. Dysfunction sets in when you seek your self in it and mistake it for who you are.” Eckhart Tolle
14. POSITIVITY vs. NEGATIVITY. No matter what happens to them, they always seem to keep a positive perspective on everything and by doing so, they tend irritate a lot of negative and “realistic” people.
15. TAKING RESPONSIBILITY vs. BLAMING. They take full ownership over their lives and they rarely use excuses. Happy people understand that the moment you choose to blame some outside forces for whatever it is that happens to you, you are in fact giving all your power away, and they choose to keep the power for themselves and taking responsibility for everything that happens to them.
This article calls out all the must-haves for building a home bar for under $200 (not including refills!). It even includes 12 drink recipes using these ingredients - what an amazing resource. Not included on this list but certainly a must-have in our bar/wine fridge is a nice bottle of bubbly, white/red wine and beers.
Also great suggestions for us as we plan to stock a bar for our wedding!
and I feel totally naked!!! I’ve been wearing it for 5 months and I guess that’s enough time to make it feel natural. I also realized that I must fidget with it a TON throughout the day because I keep going to play with it and it’s not there. Ahhhh can’t wait to get home and put it back on!!!
21st Birthdays are always a night to remember….provided you have a friend with a camera! Richelle’s 21st was no different =)
We started with gifts….my sister, Paul & I all got her 21 shooters of alcohol. My friends did this for my 21st and I loved it! My sister’s card for her had a scavenger hunt of things to complete which made the night even more fun! I made her a ‘drink book’. This was something my sister made for me on my 21st birthday and it was a tradition I continued with all of my friends. The book has slots for 21 drinks & you write down what the drink is, who bought it for you and then the 21 year old signs their name. It’s hilarious to see the next morning how much their signature changes!!!
With the birthday sash on and tiara on her head, we headed to RA Sushi. In ALL retrospect, sushi was a horrible idea for a 21st birthday dinner. And as bad of an idea as sushi was….3 sake bombs were even worse! Needless to say, it was a VERY strong way to start out her birthday! The sushi was yummy and we even shared a giant fish bowl drink…yummmmmmmmmmm! While RA may not have been the best choice, they gave a FANTASTIC free desert so I don’t regret the decision haha.
After RA we decided to hit up Suite 301, which tries to be like a night club on Mill. We don’t normally go there, but we knew they had 2 for 1 drinks…which is perfect when you’re buying shots! To our surprise, we were the ONLY people in the bar!!! In fact, there were two other girls but they were walking out when we walked in…I guess we appeared to be fun because they turned around and went back in. I joked with Richelle that we rented the entire club out for her birthday haha. We had a few shots, including a disappointingly horrible Lemon Drop shot that her Aunt asked me to buy for her.
Despite the slow crowd, Richelle had a lot of fun! Some fun quotes: “HE KNEW IT WAS MY BIIIIIIIRTHDAY!!!!” (remember, we’re the ONLY people there AND she has a tiara and sash on) and “I’M ALL GROOOOOOOOOWN UP!”
After a blueberry pancake shot, her stomach turned sour like most 21 year olds stomachs do…and Paul and Shelley took her home. The last photo from the night is priceless, her face reads it all!
Anyway—Happy 21st Birthday again Richelle! I’m glad you’re “ALL GROWN UP” and can go out with us big kids now :)